This is from a short video I saw on Facebook that beautifully explains the mind of a narcissist, and since we are all suffering from the mind of the Narcissist in Chief, here is what she said...
- That didn't happen, but if it did...
- It wasn't that bad, but if it was...
- It's not a big deal, but if it is...
- It's not my fault, but if it is...
- I didn't mean it, but if I did...
- You made me do it.
This applies to more than the Narcissist in Chief, of course and is a good metric to make us aware of any unfortunate relationships we may have with narcissists.
The young lady who made the video is named Kristen Ppucci, and it seems to be aimed at women in relationships, but I thought it shows us a lot more as well.